"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Build Martial Artists Physique???

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I'm curious to know what is recommended in weight lifting/diet when your into the martial arts? Several years ago I practiced martial arts and became very limber but that's about it.

Now I'm getting into Krav Maga which is much more intense than the TKD I did. As I understand it, you should not be huge (big) as it hinders flexibility. I'm a average guy 5'8" 173 pounds with a beer gut.

How do you balance keeping lean while building muscle at the same time? I've read plenty about eat BIG and focus on the big three workouts which makes sense, but does this rule apply in the same manner with what I'm looking to do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
probably isnt much different.

might have to increase caloric intake further to offset what practicing your martial art does (assuming its moderately intense)
Damn!! gotta eat more?
 

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Durden Tyler said:
Damn!! gotta eat more?

If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
If you're burning excess calories through intense training, weight gain will be slowed down.

now, if you dont plan on training that intensely or long, you might be alright.

Martial Arts training will be intense three to four days a week. When I did martial arts before I didn't change my diet and I actually gained some weight... After I lost a few pounds. My Doc said it was probably because I lost some fat then was building a little bit of muscle. I wasn't lifting or anything, just tons of push ups, weight free squats, sparring and things of that nature.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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