"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Buidling Rapport with a Master DJ

Rint

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There's a guy at my school who is such a playa/DJ he gets the hella fine chicks in the upperclassmen. Now i know most of you are gonna say dont try to win his approval or dont try to be like him, but i'm not trying to do that. He's kinda like a chick at my school not in the sense he is feminine,but in the sense that all his good buddy's reputation are good. You know if you get girls you get popularity same with this guy. Now he gets along with everyone. He likes me i like him as a friend, but i want to be good friends with him. So how do i build a better Rapport with this master DJ or any DJ at that matter. THANKS
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Take it from someone who has status.

If you try and "earn" it, this guy's going to hate you.

You alone have to be a man and get the job done.
 

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No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
 

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djSlvt said:
No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
I'm not sure he's totally cool with that. I like to become good friends with a person before i ask stuff like that. Me and him are pals, but we arn't good friends cause we have nothing in common and my social status is not near his level. Plus i dunno how to ingage him.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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