"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Buidling Rapport with a Master DJ

Rint

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There's a guy at my school who is such a playa/DJ he gets the hella fine chicks in the upperclassmen. Now i know most of you are gonna say dont try to win his approval or dont try to be like him, but i'm not trying to do that. He's kinda like a chick at my school not in the sense he is feminine,but in the sense that all his good buddy's reputation are good. You know if you get girls you get popularity same with this guy. Now he gets along with everyone. He likes me i like him as a friend, but i want to be good friends with him. So how do i build a better Rapport with this master DJ or any DJ at that matter. THANKS
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Take it from someone who has status.

If you try and "earn" it, this guy's going to hate you.

You alone have to be a man and get the job done.
 

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No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
 

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djSlvt said:
No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
I'm not sure he's totally cool with that. I like to become good friends with a person before i ask stuff like that. Me and him are pals, but we arn't good friends cause we have nothing in common and my social status is not near his level. Plus i dunno how to ingage him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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