"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buidling Rapport with a Master DJ

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There's a guy at my school who is such a playa/DJ he gets the hella fine chicks in the upperclassmen. Now i know most of you are gonna say dont try to win his approval or dont try to be like him, but i'm not trying to do that. He's kinda like a chick at my school not in the sense he is feminine,but in the sense that all his good buddy's reputation are good. You know if you get girls you get popularity same with this guy. Now he gets along with everyone. He likes me i like him as a friend, but i want to be good friends with him. So how do i build a better Rapport with this master DJ or any DJ at that matter. THANKS
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Take it from someone who has status.

If you try and "earn" it, this guy's going to hate you.

You alone have to be a man and get the job done.
 
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No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
 
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djSlvt said:
No... :kick:


To be good with women you have to know some men that are good with women. You want him as friends. If you want to know something about women just ask him, he will be happy to help you..

You don't have to prove anything to him. Just be straight up. He has plenty of fake people in his life, and one genuine bud he will always take.


Previous poster mentioned "status"... I know about people like that, they're phoney. Status means sh1t if you go around bragging about it like some fag.
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I'm not sure he's totally cool with that. I like to become good friends with a person before i ask stuff like that. Me and him are pals, but we arn't good friends cause we have nothing in common and my social status is not near his level. Plus i dunno how to ingage him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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