Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bugging Me...

Craig_87

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Right Guys....Quick Help...

Im good looking (so ive been told)...I dont have a problem talking to girls...or closing with them. Nights out often end with me taking someone back..having good time etc...

However, there is this one girl at University...just one. I dont put her on a pedestal....never have, cos thats not the way to do it. Theres something about her that makes you stop and stare. Loads of lads go up and talk to her...but she knocks them back....

However, and Im not the only one who's noticed this, shes definately into me. All those little glances....the lengthy looks across the dancefloor....shell even try and get closer to me across the run of the night...

BUT I DO NOTHING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im so pissed off with myself...cos I dont know why I do this....

Its almost as if it's Oneitis...but I still go and game other girls.....

Any Idea why Im so screwed up..and what to do????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wiesman44

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its mental. You're Pyschologically fu#king w/ yourself. Only you can overcome it
 

WC2

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The only way to overcome it is to do it. 3 second rule. Next time you see here, don't even think. Go talk to her. Worst case scenario, you don't make a lot of sense. There are far worse things, but no reward is greater than catching something that others can't
 
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