"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bugging Me...

Craig_87

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Right Guys....Quick Help...

Im good looking (so ive been told)...I dont have a problem talking to girls...or closing with them. Nights out often end with me taking someone back..having good time etc...

However, there is this one girl at University...just one. I dont put her on a pedestal....never have, cos thats not the way to do it. Theres something about her that makes you stop and stare. Loads of lads go up and talk to her...but she knocks them back....

However, and Im not the only one who's noticed this, shes definately into me. All those little glances....the lengthy looks across the dancefloor....shell even try and get closer to me across the run of the night...

BUT I DO NOTHING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im so pissed off with myself...cos I dont know why I do this....

Its almost as if it's Oneitis...but I still go and game other girls.....

Any Idea why Im so screwed up..and what to do????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wiesman44

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its mental. You're Pyschologically fu#king w/ yourself. Only you can overcome it
 

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The only way to overcome it is to do it. 3 second rule. Next time you see here, don't even think. Go talk to her. Worst case scenario, you don't make a lot of sense. There are far worse things, but no reward is greater than catching something that others can't
 
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