ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Must be nice. *drifts off into daydream*
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nothing personal I dont know why I should be looking into the mirror to understand anything.backbreaker said:I'm sorry if I made you look in the mirror. I really am. But the guy asked a question and I was trying to answer it.
and that wasn't ment to be a slant in any way shape or forum. I've been here what.. 5years and have 4500 posts.. My whole damn life is on this forum. Anyone who has used the search button knows that
no there is not. not at all. I get PM's everyday and I will answer any question that anyone asks me. 9/10ths' of my yahoo IM is from people on here who want to talk to me. I have no problem with that.. hell, lol, that's the only reaosn I'm here. to give baqckThere is a weird ego thing with people who are popular on here responding to posts that they think are below them.
backbreaker said:Before I left town I paid 98 dollars to fill up a fvcking SPORTS CAR. that **** still pisses you off
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I know that's not what you ment.. I'm black (ovbiously) but I didn't grow up in the hood. Well... when I was little and my mom was in college still I grew up with my grandmom who lived in the HOOD but for the most part I grew up in one of the best upper middle class neighborhoods in arkansas.. no drugs, I could go to school with the door wide open and come home and it would be locked with nothing gone.. actually I think I did that before.speakeasy said:^^^
Hey, that's an inspiring story there man. A true "pulling yourself up by your bootstraps" tale that people should use as an example. I wish some of these dumb ass kids joining gangs and slangin dope could realize you can make good money and come up in the world without getting yourself into trouble.
Hey, when you started your business, how did you go about learning all the ins and outs of running a business? The boring stuff like accounting, taxes, payrolls, shares, and all the red tape, etc. Did you already have knowledge of this from friends? Did you have a mentor? Or was it just one of those things you sort of learned on your own as you went along?
reading every book I could get my hands on and hard knocks.how did you go about learning all the ins and outs of running a business?
nope,... just two years of taking CPA exams even though I can't take the actual CPA test itself, reading books like "how stocks work", learning about different types of accounting and why they are benefitial.. people have no idea how much I had tolearn. WhenI was 21 I was literrarly toutoring my two best friends in accounting, which was both their majors. Alot of what I had to learn had nothing to do with computers.. **** I knew about computers before the business.. if anything I feel behind on my "techie" knowledge. when I started my company, I was in the process of building a PC with a RAID 0+1 confieration and had 3 different Operating systems on it... for the hell of it. I knew computers. I didn't know businessDid you already have knowledge of this from friends?
Actually, that's to fill up my Lexus.. which is a sports CAr (SC400, it's my everyday car)BacardiGuy said:I wish I was spending $100 to fill up an Aston over spending $100 on my piece of **** Jeep.
You may think you have more problems, but trust me, they're problems most people want to have.
So you are making money on Handicapped disabled horses - are they paralyzed or have Alzheimer's or something?? How are they winning with such handicaps??backbreaker said:...i could write a book on handicapping, but I won't because I would be taking money out my own pocket.
lol at the first part.Last Man Standing said:So you are making money on Handicapped disabled horses - are they paralyzed or have Alzheimer's or something?? How are they winning with such handicaps??
BB is a professional gambler!!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
agreed.belividere said:My whole point was that you have 4500 posts and searching for a back story on anyone with that many posts is going to take a lot more time than you providing a paragraph or two saying how you got were you are.