ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Must be nice. *drifts off into daydream*
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nothing personal I dont know why I should be looking into the mirror to understand anything.backbreaker said:I'm sorry if I made you look in the mirror. I really am. But the guy asked a question and I was trying to answer it.
and that wasn't ment to be a slant in any way shape or forum. I've been here what.. 5years and have 4500 posts.. My whole damn life is on this forum. Anyone who has used the search button knows that
no there is not. not at all. I get PM's everyday and I will answer any question that anyone asks me. 9/10ths' of my yahoo IM is from people on here who want to talk to me. I have no problem with that.. hell, lol, that's the only reaosn I'm here. to give baqckThere is a weird ego thing with people who are popular on here responding to posts that they think are below them.
backbreaker said:Before I left town I paid 98 dollars to fill up a fvcking SPORTS CAR. that **** still pisses you off
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know that's not what you ment.. I'm black (ovbiously) but I didn't grow up in the hood. Well... when I was little and my mom was in college still I grew up with my grandmom who lived in the HOOD but for the most part I grew up in one of the best upper middle class neighborhoods in arkansas.. no drugs, I could go to school with the door wide open and come home and it would be locked with nothing gone.. actually I think I did that before.speakeasy said:^^^
Hey, that's an inspiring story there man. A true "pulling yourself up by your bootstraps" tale that people should use as an example. I wish some of these dumb ass kids joining gangs and slangin dope could realize you can make good money and come up in the world without getting yourself into trouble.
Hey, when you started your business, how did you go about learning all the ins and outs of running a business? The boring stuff like accounting, taxes, payrolls, shares, and all the red tape, etc. Did you already have knowledge of this from friends? Did you have a mentor? Or was it just one of those things you sort of learned on your own as you went along?
reading every book I could get my hands on and hard knocks.how did you go about learning all the ins and outs of running a business?
nope,... just two years of taking CPA exams even though I can't take the actual CPA test itself, reading books like "how stocks work", learning about different types of accounting and why they are benefitial.. people have no idea how much I had tolearn. WhenI was 21 I was literrarly toutoring my two best friends in accounting, which was both their majors. Alot of what I had to learn had nothing to do with computers.. **** I knew about computers before the business.. if anything I feel behind on my "techie" knowledge. when I started my company, I was in the process of building a PC with a RAID 0+1 confieration and had 3 different Operating systems on it... for the hell of it. I knew computers. I didn't know businessDid you already have knowledge of this from friends?
Actually, that's to fill up my Lexus.. which is a sports CAr (SC400, it's my everyday car)BacardiGuy said:I wish I was spending $100 to fill up an Aston over spending $100 on my piece of **** Jeep.
You may think you have more problems, but trust me, they're problems most people want to have.
So you are making money on Handicapped disabled horses - are they paralyzed or have Alzheimer's or something?? How are they winning with such handicaps??backbreaker said:...i could write a book on handicapping, but I won't because I would be taking money out my own pocket.
lol at the first part.Last Man Standing said:So you are making money on Handicapped disabled horses - are they paralyzed or have Alzheimer's or something?? How are they winning with such handicaps??
BB is a professional gambler!!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
agreed.belividere said:My whole point was that you have 4500 posts and searching for a back story on anyone with that many posts is going to take a lot more time than you providing a paragraph or two saying how you got were you are.