"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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**** buddy issues.. help..

DonGorgon

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Okay so here is the rundown:

Met this 19 year old HB9 chick 6 months ago at a club... and we have been Fing ever since we met but we are also good friends and very open and have a passionate connection.. she takes me out and pays for stuff etc and always comes when i want her.. never gives any trouble at all.. she is from a religious family but she is a freak and used to smoke weed..

soo she wet home for Xmas break 5 weeks but still found her way back to my city 2 times and we Fed and hung out.. no she is back and it seems she has started smoking weed heavily again and is still cool but it has suddenly gotten hard to F her like she get all hot and ready but then says stop and wants to talk about god and how she feels like a sinner etc.. but she is still -smoking weed soo i dont understand..lol

she keeps talking about changing her life and cutting out sex and smoking etc.... this is pissing me off cause i feel like its BS... she has been kissing me alot more though and really deep so a not sure if she is catching feelings or what??? I just want our F buddy situation to stay stress free but ji guess that nevr happens

any advice??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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be frank.

tell her if the f-buddy deal is still, despite her change in value system. If so, bone her until Doomsday, if not then find somebody else.
 

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namthebabe said:
be frank.

tell her if the f-buddy deal is still, despite her change in value system. If so, bone her until Doomsday, if not then find somebody else.
We talked and she said she likes me so she will give me head any time buts he wants to stop having sex .... wtf is that..?

I don't wana lose this ho cause she is very cute and very cool... She is taking me to dinner tonight also
 

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You can't expect a 19 y/o to be emotionally stable. You'd be better off to nurture her spiritual journey rather than try to prevent it. If you can convince her that God made both weed and sex, just like everything else, then neither of those issues will stand in your way.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You can't expect a 19 y/o to be emotionally stable. You'd be better off to nurture her spiritual journey rather than try to prevent it. If you can convince her that God made both weed and sex, just like everything else, then neither of those issues will stand in your way.
^^^omg you are a true player...:up: :up: :up: :up: :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonGorgon said:
We talked and she said she likes me so she will give me head any time buts he wants to stop having sex .... wtf is that..?

I don't wana lose this ho cause she is very cute and very cool... She is taking me to dinner tonight also

Then she's not being honest. You are being AFC and not standing your ground.
 

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This is what happens in FB situations. Those who partake in this kind of **** tend to be CRAZY, so you're not going to have an easy time with it. I mean, clubs, weed, sex, and God? WTF?
 

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I wouldn't worry too much. Just get your dyck sucked by her and fvck your other plates.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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