"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**** buddy issues.. help..

DonGorgon

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Okay so here is the rundown:

Met this 19 year old HB9 chick 6 months ago at a club... and we have been Fing ever since we met but we are also good friends and very open and have a passionate connection.. she takes me out and pays for stuff etc and always comes when i want her.. never gives any trouble at all.. she is from a religious family but she is a freak and used to smoke weed..

soo she wet home for Xmas break 5 weeks but still found her way back to my city 2 times and we Fed and hung out.. no she is back and it seems she has started smoking weed heavily again and is still cool but it has suddenly gotten hard to F her like she get all hot and ready but then says stop and wants to talk about god and how she feels like a sinner etc.. but she is still -smoking weed soo i dont understand..lol

she keeps talking about changing her life and cutting out sex and smoking etc.... this is pissing me off cause i feel like its BS... she has been kissing me alot more though and really deep so a not sure if she is catching feelings or what??? I just want our F buddy situation to stay stress free but ji guess that nevr happens

any advice??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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be frank.

tell her if the f-buddy deal is still, despite her change in value system. If so, bone her until Doomsday, if not then find somebody else.
 

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namthebabe said:
be frank.

tell her if the f-buddy deal is still, despite her change in value system. If so, bone her until Doomsday, if not then find somebody else.
We talked and she said she likes me so she will give me head any time buts he wants to stop having sex .... wtf is that..?

I don't wana lose this ho cause she is very cute and very cool... She is taking me to dinner tonight also
 

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You can't expect a 19 y/o to be emotionally stable. You'd be better off to nurture her spiritual journey rather than try to prevent it. If you can convince her that God made both weed and sex, just like everything else, then neither of those issues will stand in your way.
 

DonGorgon

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Bible_Belt said:
You can't expect a 19 y/o to be emotionally stable. You'd be better off to nurture her spiritual journey rather than try to prevent it. If you can convince her that God made both weed and sex, just like everything else, then neither of those issues will stand in your way.
^^^omg you are a true player...:up: :up: :up: :up: :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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namthebabe

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DonGorgon said:
We talked and she said she likes me so she will give me head any time buts he wants to stop having sex .... wtf is that..?

I don't wana lose this ho cause she is very cute and very cool... She is taking me to dinner tonight also

Then she's not being honest. You are being AFC and not standing your ground.
 

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This is what happens in FB situations. Those who partake in this kind of **** tend to be CRAZY, so you're not going to have an easy time with it. I mean, clubs, weed, sex, and God? WTF?
 

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I wouldn't worry too much. Just get your dyck sucked by her and fvck your other plates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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