"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Buddy in distress

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Never let a chick use your ride if it is in mint condition or an antique - this is a longstanding man rule for thousands of years (it was chariots back then :D)

This woman is demanding much for children that are NOT his!!! Tell her mommy or "baby's daddy" to rent a truck!!!!!!!

And yes, it is ok to tell your friend what you think - this is why he called you!!

It is his perogative to help her or not and you should know how guys feel about their rides that are in mint condition!

And yeah, tell him another thing..."date much younger women"!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Latinoman

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Excellent responses!

I think a book might not be a bad idea. And yes, he tend to "complain" but also to add her "good qualities".

Good guy. Sadly, he used to be a ladies man (I think the reason for his divorce!).

I won't call him. I will let him call me. And then, I will be more blunt. The decision still his.

But now I feel more comfortable with my role, as a bud.
 
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