"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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!Bubbly Myers girl! keen or just saleswoman

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I'll keep this short. On friday 31st December I returned some shyt looking pants I got for xmas at the Myers store(Retail chain in Oz) Behind the counter was a very petite, cute looking girl of about 18yrs of age. I won't post the whole conversation down. Although we chatted for about 10 minutes and she didn't really want to let me go. Here are some rather "unusual" things she said to me.

*At the start she said "Hey would you like a cookie out of my private stash?" I said yes thanks then she goes "You know, for that cookie of mine you gotta talk to me now!"(big smile on her face now) "

*Offers me a few more of her cookies out of her bag to take home with me.

*Asked me what I'm doing tonight for NYE, told me what she's doing yada yada yada for about 10 minutes

*After I got my change from her she said "Ok you gotta come back now, ya promise?" because I had to go somewhere else, couldn't continue the chat.

Overall she seemed to ask a sh@tload of questions and talked non stop and laughed a few times. I never had the nerve to ask girls out that are working though because always thought it's just friendly customer service. But the ones where I put a "*" next to seem rather odd just for customer service.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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