You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So there is NOTHING bad about Bubblegum?Originally posted by S0LID
Is it good to eat?
no
What are the affects of it?
fun?
Does it burn Calories?
ye, but not many
Will it make u put on weight?
no
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by S0LID
Well it's suguary, which isnt gd for u...
Originally posted by Lifeforce
what is the point off these questions... ? use your common sense, read up on the artificial sweeteners in the gum... don't spam the HF section with worthless questions.
What does bubblegum have to do with diet? Do you swallow your gum every time you chew it or something?Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
If Bubblegum has to do with diet, it has to do with H&F... and if u dont think it has anything to do with H&F, then ignore it?![]()
Laterz...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
*sigh* alright spoonfeed the kid some information.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Is it good to eat?
What are the affects of it?
Does it burn Calories?
Will it make u put on weight?
Anything?
Thanx in advance for the replies
Laterz...
O yeah, the babes cant keep their hands of of me when i chew gum. Try making the sticks of gum stick out in your shirt pocket, this way they'll know your serious about your gum.Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Just a random question:
Are girls turned on/off by guys chewing gum?
I already know it's a dumb question so don't get all pissy on me please.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.