"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bruno Mars is a Big Time AFC
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Girls love hearing hearing that kind of sh!t, but only in song or movie form.
If there are guys who actually take the lyrics to heart, who cares, less competition. Especially if they're running around catching grenades.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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hahaha this is true!DJ_Hero said:
http://mediatakeout.com/external/46405
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Also, what he sings about in the song ISN'T romance.
Basically, his song is about this - imagine you are happily married, and then some guy at work falls in love with your wife when he first meets her. He starts going crazy, starts thinking him and your wife should be together, but your wife loves you, and thinks he's a psycho and hopes he'd just go away already and leave her alone. But no, your psycho co-worker starts thinking things like "he'd catch a grenade for your wife, and he doesn't care that she'd mess with his breaks and doesn't even give a shyt about him".
THAT is what this horrible horrible song is about......people need to stop mistaking it for love, because the girl that Bruno Mars is singing about doesn't even like him and all it sounds like is a psycho AFC oneitis obsession, which throws around the idea of DEATH pretty loosely.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Bruno Mars is very popular with the teenage girls right now, though. I was with one recently and she made me watch 3 or 4 of his videos in a row. I had never heard of him.
I think my comment was, "What a chump!" And she just sighed and smiled. I said, "Wow, you really have a thing for him, don't you?" She said, "I love him!"
"Girl you really in for a treat now, but don't fall in love cause we just havin' sex. I'm gonna get you wet. We not makin love tonight."
"You can thank me in the morning, when you wake up feelin hella good. Feelin like you want me."
1) Any guy who lets his actions be dictated to him by a pop song deserves whatever fate he gets.909pua said:
2) Hmm, you think he's an AFC? Well, let's see, he's now richer, more famous, and can get more tail than anyone on these boards. So what does that make us?
You can call him a sellout. You can say his music is terrible. But don't make the mistake of thinking there is anything average, chumpy or frustrated about a guy that is making girls across the country wet their panties.
There's nothing more AFCish than calling a more successful guy an AFC out of envy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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^^ThisDJ_Hero said:
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Asasione said:
Can people seriously stop being stupid and realize that these ARE NOT LOVE SONGS! How many times do I have to explain that these are songs about psychotic oneitis-riddled chumps.......Grenade is IN NO WAY ABOUT LOVE.
No one has a problem with love songs........we all have a problem with PSYCHO CHUMP songs.
Get the difference?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.