"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
brunette = the new blonde
- Thread starter speakeasy
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hooligan Harry
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I dont get it
But she does have a nice ass
But she does have a nice ass
bigjohnson
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What he (^^^^^) said.
She's a 5.7 with the backside of a 9.6
She's a 5.7 with the backside of a 9.6
Desert Fox
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butterface
The Sperminator
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Shes not really that hot. Anyways guys actually prefer brunettes over blondes. Blondes just make get a little more attention because they are easy usually or more flirty. Honestly I've never liked blondes for some reason. I think I've only liked like 2 blondes my whole life lol.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Her face is plenty good to me:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=247851772&albumID=349902&imageID=791701#a=349902&i=791807
More of her: http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewAlbums2&friendID=247851772&view=true
She's Columbian, home to some of the hottest women in the world.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=247851772&albumID=349902&imageID=791701#a=349902&i=791807
More of her: http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewAlbums2&friendID=247851772&view=true
She's Columbian, home to some of the hottest women in the world.
bigjohnson
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Hard to say from a set of carefully posed pics but she seems to clearly have fake boobs and an average face. Nothing wrong with the face and a lot of guys don't mind fake hoohaas so I guess she's fine.
Just not my taste but if she had a nice personality I'd spin her.
What does the place she hails from matter in this context?
Just not my taste but if she had a nice personality I'd spin her.
What does the place she hails from matter in this context?
drummer
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have always been a brunette fan.. although I only seem to get with blondes... thats changing with with new gf though 
Desdinova
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This is what pisses me off...
Ugly old bags dye their hair blonde. They dress fvcking nice, and some of them have decent bodies on them - at least from behind. Then you see their front... droopy tits and the face of an old leather shoe found on the side of the road.
I've almost completely given up at looking at blondes for this reason. It's a real turn-off. Give me a sexy brunette with bright green eyes, and I'm happy.
Ugly old bags dye their hair blonde. They dress fvcking nice, and some of them have decent bodies on them - at least from behind. Then you see their front... droopy tits and the face of an old leather shoe found on the side of the road.
I've almost completely given up at looking at blondes for this reason. It's a real turn-off. Give me a sexy brunette with bright green eyes, and I'm happy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bigjohnson
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Blue eyed brunette with pale skin. Yup. Close second is a petite mocha Asian or South American with those almost black brown eyes and long curly blacker than black hair.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Yeah... I agree.Desdinova said:
I was with a friend at the mall and I saw one of these monsters.
I was like, "Okay, let's play a game. Rate that girl from behind. Go. 8."
Then we walk past her and she was exactly as you described.
Then I just shut up about that game for the rest of the day.
OTB
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I might be going to Prom with a cute Columbian chickspeakeasy said:
OTB
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I totally fvcking agree with you f283000!f283000 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.