brunette stunner at sprouts

[Jetleg]

Rewind to about a week ago, it was a normal shopping day at sprouts. I notice an amazing looking brunette. I went right up to her and said "your hair is completely stunning". She looked appreciative and said "thanks!". Then, I went about my business.

This is a first for me, I don't normally do this.

Fast forward to 15 minutes ago. I get out of my car to find her pushing carts. I'm not having the best day, so I try to avoid her. So my pace quickens as I walk to the store. Her pace quickens faster, and then she's right along side of me. I try to speed up, then she almost runs and cuts right in front of me to get into the store giving me an amazing shot of her beautiful hair.

I'm feeling a bit orbited today, pardon me.

Why giving her a complainment and then going to your own business?
Its not TOO bad to give a complainment, but it have to lead somewhere, you should have somehow continued the conversation.

I forbird you giving away complainments without a purpose, you just make this world even more beta man...

 

[wifehunter]

Why giving her a complainment and then going to your own business?
Its not TOO bad to give a complainment, but it have to lead somewhere, you should have somehow continued the conversation.

I forbird you giving away complainments without a purpose, you just make this world even more beta man...

backwards

 

[wifehunter]

I would focus on your own red flags before looking for them in others. Dude do what you need to asap to get a home and job asap...

duh

 

[Konada]

What you did right:
Genuine compliment with no need for reciprocation. Whatever you were feeling didn't matter, she intepreted as a sign of authenticity and confidence.

What you did wrong:
Not closing the deal after she put herself into your orbit.

 

[Konada]

Why giving her a complainment and then going to your own business?
Its not TOO bad to give a complainment, but it have to lead somewhere, you should have somehow continued the conversation.

I forbird you giving away complainments without a purpose, you just make this world even more beta man...

Beta is giving compliments with a purpose to get in her pants. I suggest you learn the difference.

 

[wifehunter]

What you did right:
Genuine compliment with no need for reciprocation. Whatever you were feeling didn't matter, she intepreted as a sign of authenticity and confidence.

What you did wrong:
Not closing the deal after she put herself into your orbit.

Sorry to dissappoint you, but I don't close ladies I don't even know.

 

[dk1990S111]

Sorry to dissappoint you, but I don't close ladies I don't even know.

Well which sprouts is this? lol I'll go close her

 

[wifehunter]

Well which sprouts is this? lol I'll go close her

lol

 

[MrWiggles]

Sorry to dissappoint you, but I don't close ladies I don't even know.

you dont close ladies you dont even know but you do start threads on the internet about them. Why didnt you get to know her then and then close her?

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You can possibly have other chances to close her. Just don't make it seem forced or needy. I'm sure you will see her again and you can give her a smile and talk (again don't force it or seem needy)

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Had a chick at a coffee shop who worked there. She came in the coffee shop for a meeting had to wait, luckily I had the only table available. She asked if she could sit down, I said sure. I went about my business reading, then we both overheard something funny glanced and smiled at each other. Small talk ensued, but to be really honest.....I didn't even know she was old enough to be gamed. She looked so young (16, 17) and I don't roll that way unless I know they are 18 for sure. Sure enough she was 18 and in college we small talked she went to her meeting.

I didn't close, but I plan to now my point is its not do or die with every woman you meet.

 

[yuppaz]

Had a chick at a coffee shop who worked there. She came in the coffee shop for a meeting had to wait, luckily I had the only table available. She asked if she could sit down, I said sure. I went about my business reading, then we both overheard something funny glanced and smiled at each other. Small talk ensued, but to be really honest.....I didn't even know she was old enough to be gamed. She looked so young (16, 17) and I don't roll that way unless I know they are 18 for sure. Sure enough she was 18 and in college we small talked she went to her meeting.

I didn't close, but I plan to now my point is its not do or die with every woman you meet.

In my experience the next time I see them they are then unavailable or I never see them again. Fortune favors the bold, very true sentiment.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

In my experience the next time I see them they are then unavailable or I never see them again. Fortune favors the bold, very true sentiment.

This is where I disagree, but I do see the point of it. I just think its different every situation and I have personal experiences to prove it (to myself)

 

[wifehunter]

Providence...because neediness and impatience are unattractive. Time will tell.

You all, are a needy bunch these days.

Slow down, relax and enjoy it. She'll appreciate it.

 

[wifehunter]

Eye contact, relaxed laid back smile...followed by "How's your day going?"

I'm no longer amazed how far this can take me. It never seems to fail.

simple and effective...definately my style!

Thanks!

 

[bigneil]

Terrible

She drew five hearts on the receipt.

 

[bigneil]

I know this isn't your point, but is there a girl alive who has never dyed her hair?

On a related note, what percentage of women out there at any given time do you suppose are sporting their completely natural hair color (no frosting, lightening, nothing)? By the way, I would bet that most of those natural girls are brunette.

Yes, I'm going back to see her tonight, planning to ask for her number. Also, my banker at Wells Fargo has her natural hair color. I estimate about 1 in 20 women (95% brunette) qualify. They love when you notice. It has a natural shine that can't be faked.

 

[sazc]

Pass, I like to take things at my own pace. Which is, dead fuking slow.

She's already shown you she's into you. Take it slow ad she will be DYING for you to ask her out. Be sure to notice her at least 2 of every 3 trips. You got this, if you want it.

 

[wifehunter]

update:

She's still orbiting. She seemed respectful and well behaved. My response was "hello again"... she smiled.

It so fun to go slow... maybe I just like the attraction stage the most, savoring all the moments. I can do this for a few months. Maybe, by that time, I'll have more of my sh!t together.

 

[devilkingx2]

update:

She's still orbiting. She seemed respectful and well behaved. My response was "hello again"... she smiled.

It so fun to go slow... maybe I just like the attraction stage the most, savoring all the moments. I can do this for a few months. Maybe, by that time, I'll have more of my sh!t together.

she'll lose interest in like a week if you don't do anything