"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bros before hoes ?

KingWizard

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Some fancy day my friend has invited me over to his new years day party. I came over without any hestitaion. Then I have met this girl, a girl who almost ruined my friendship. She was nice and she was CLEARLY into me, at least for now.By the way, I haven't a smallest idea, that my best friend got friendzoned by her a day before or so. At the party I was too drunk to notice my friend's reaction to my flirt with her.
Going to the topic now, I invited the girl to a coffeehouse, it was a double date actually beacause of her shyness. But meanwhile, something unexpected as fukk happened, I just couldn't believe it. My friend, just got carried away by jealousy and he trashtalked me with her. He tried saying everything to put me in a bad view. The girls later gave me the whole conversation, and at the end she said that my friend is coming too, but she hasn't invited him. The first thing I have done, was calling my friend and integorrating him - why the fukk? what the fukk? I was more angry at the point that he could just tell bull***t around my back. Finally, I received a clearer view at the problem.
Simply: he was bull***ting out of jealousy, that girl was planning to invite my best friend at our date from the beginning , the girl tried to lied, that she hasn't invited him, whatever :down:
Dunno if right or not, but I have forgiven my friend, but I will remember it anyway. I told him , "if you want to play games like this with me, I will show you how the things are done" .
We are cool now, I NEXT'ed the girl ( c'mon, inviting friendzoned third wheel? psycho b), and today is the day of the mentioned date. It's just me, my two friends - one from the double date and also the creator of this drama., we are going to play bowling, drink beer and keep up the BROS BEFORE HOES
I can change shoes, I can change my style, I can change my mindset, I can change my girl. Can I change bros? I guess so, but who I will become then?
Give me an advice, I feel I have done the best in given situation, but I aam only 18 yo, first time this happened to me in such cheeky way.
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SORRY FOR BAD FORMATTING, IT'S MY FIRST POST HERE, I AM LOOKING FORWARD FOR SOME ADVICES - IN BEING GOOD DJ AND LIVING A GOOD LIFE
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Skyline

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I am bro's before hoes and so are you. Were a lot alike in that regard and even have selfish friends who place hoe's over bro's. This issue most likely won't go away, so will you? What did I choose? As far as women go, I have "black listed" one of my good friends from any potential women I come into contact with.

And double date? So your best friend had a blind date. There's no reason to stop talking to this girl if she's trying to set him up even after he got friend zoned, that's his fault.
 

Konada

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Either way your "bro" and ho did you a great favour by showing their true colors.
Time to find better friends, this guy ain't your bro.
 

KingWizard

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I don t think it such a good reason to break a friendship, but I will keep him away from my dates and meetings. Also he was really ashamed of his beahviour, so I let it go actually. Girls will come and girlls will go, but he doesnt need to know about my romance life since that day. Thanks for responses ;p Eeach day is another new expierience, huh?
 

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Your friend probably has a lame-ass 1itis for her, you can understand his behavior. If she's nothing special for you, all good.
If you want to bang her and feel like it's a golden opportunity, do it behind his back. You're doing nothing wrong.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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