"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Broken heart makes you a DJ??

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solo1

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not exactly a DJ i say, but it will teach you to stop being so damn nice to girls. And will give you a jerkish edge with girls because deep down you resent them a little (or a lot). Because you knew being nice didnt work, so going 360 on it is an experimental phase.

But i'd have to agree back a few years my oneitis for ths girl that LJBF. All of a sudden one day i treated her differently and since then am a different guy.

The other day i was having a similar discussion with my 2 buddies (guy and girl), we all agreed that our afc/religious friend should come across that one girl that will step on his heart and change him forever as a person.....honestly...he's just too much of a nice guy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The problem with the nice guy is not on his niceness.

The problem is that he is merely a tool. He does whatever people want him to do. He doesn't have a mind of his own. He likes to please, what is not the same of being nice. You can disagree nicely with someone. Nice guys never disagrees with anyone.

You can still be nice if you really are and pick up girls, if you do know what you want and have the guts to go after it.
 
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good thread you got going fellow DJ's....I am here because my heart and wallet were broken because of a oneits...I went so far as to cast love spells to get her back...but I said enough is enough fvck this shiht.....I never saw women in the light I do now. ...it has made me see value n myself...but what does not kill you only makes you stronger.....
 
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