"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Broken heart makes you a DJ??

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not exactly a DJ i say, but it will teach you to stop being so damn nice to girls. And will give you a jerkish edge with girls because deep down you resent them a little (or a lot). Because you knew being nice didnt work, so going 360 on it is an experimental phase.

But i'd have to agree back a few years my oneitis for ths girl that LJBF. All of a sudden one day i treated her differently and since then am a different guy.

The other day i was having a similar discussion with my 2 buddies (guy and girl), we all agreed that our afc/religious friend should come across that one girl that will step on his heart and change him forever as a person.....honestly...he's just too much of a nice guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The problem with the nice guy is not on his niceness.

The problem is that he is merely a tool. He does whatever people want him to do. He doesn't have a mind of his own. He likes to please, what is not the same of being nice. You can disagree nicely with someone. Nice guys never disagrees with anyone.

You can still be nice if you really are and pick up girls, if you do know what you want and have the guts to go after it.
 
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good thread you got going fellow DJ's....I am here because my heart and wallet were broken because of a oneits...I went so far as to cast love spells to get her back...but I said enough is enough fvck this shiht.....I never saw women in the light I do now. ...it has made me see value n myself...but what does not kill you only makes you stronger.....
 
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