"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Broken heart makes you a DJ??

solo1

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not exactly a DJ i say, but it will teach you to stop being so damn nice to girls. And will give you a jerkish edge with girls because deep down you resent them a little (or a lot). Because you knew being nice didnt work, so going 360 on it is an experimental phase.

But i'd have to agree back a few years my oneitis for ths girl that LJBF. All of a sudden one day i treated her differently and since then am a different guy.

The other day i was having a similar discussion with my 2 buddies (guy and girl), we all agreed that our afc/religious friend should come across that one girl that will step on his heart and change him forever as a person.....honestly...he's just too much of a nice guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The problem with the nice guy is not on his niceness.

The problem is that he is merely a tool. He does whatever people want him to do. He doesn't have a mind of his own. He likes to please, what is not the same of being nice. You can disagree nicely with someone. Nice guys never disagrees with anyone.

You can still be nice if you really are and pick up girls, if you do know what you want and have the guts to go after it.
 

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good thread you got going fellow DJ's....I am here because my heart and wallet were broken because of a oneits...I went so far as to cast love spells to get her back...but I said enough is enough fvck this shiht.....I never saw women in the light I do now. ...it has made me see value n myself...but what does not kill you only makes you stronger.....
 
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