Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Broke up with the gf now I really like her roommate!! ?

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Hello, new here and I was hoping to get some thoughts on this.
Broke up with the ex of 1 and a half year 5 months ago, we didn't live together, I broke it off simply because it wasn't working, we weren't compatible at all, I did my best.

During this time with this lady I met her roommate who is very nice and good looking , want to clarify I did not flirt or hit on her during my relationship, did I ck her out? hell yeah!

While hanging out at their place, the roommate, gave me some vibes that triggered some curiosity from my part, . For example, I am from an specific place where we like to drink this rare drink, well , one day I walk into the kitchen and she had that drink sitting there in plain view, was it coincidence? idk. (note this girl is kinda shy)

Then, she would ask me to open cans/ bottles for her when she actually could do it her self, in a whole year and a half this girl brought one guy over and I got the feeling she was kinda interested in me meeting him ( weird).

She laughs at my stupid jokes and gives me this very subtle looks.

THE QUESTIONS:

Do these signs I perceived mean anything at all?

Should I go for it? I broke up with the ex 5 months ago, I run into the roommate a couple of weeks ago and she was VERY interested about what happened as they are not close at all and don't even talk that much.

Would I be an ******* for trying something with my ex's roommate?

Whats the move here???

Thank you for reading!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amazingswayze

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If you want to game her, do it. She's your ex, that means she's in the past. Don't feel bad. It's okay for you to see your ex's roommate. She seems easy to get along with.

Best of luck!
 

Speculator E

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There's people that end up dating their ex's sister and you're worry about a roommate? Just go for it dude.
 

El Payaso

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Go for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yungballa

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LOL, she a room mate. Forget your ex, there's a reason she's your ex. She's in the PAST.

You're living in the NOW, so what's wrong with messing with the ex's room mate? It's your choice, and the ex is out of your life. You're the master of your life, what should stop you from going after what you want? A darned ex from your past? Hell no.
 

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Copy that!! I was just a little worried when the ex finds out, tha would be very uncomfortable for the two being roommates but I guess I will do it anyway!!
 

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Woodman said:
Hello, new here and I was hoping to get some thoughts on this.
Broke up with the ex of 1 and a half year 5 months ago, we didn't live together, I broke it off simply because it wasn't working, we weren't compatible at all, I did my best.

During this time with this lady I met her roommate who is very nice and good looking , want to clarify I did not flirt or hit on her during my relationship, did I ck her out? hell yeah!

While hanging out at their place, the roommate, gave me some vibes that triggered some curiosity from my part, . For example, I am from an specific place where we like to drink this rare drink, well , one day I walk into the kitchen and she had that drink sitting there in plain view, was it coincidence? idk. (note this girl is kinda shy)

Then, she would ask me to open cans/ bottles for her when she actually could do it her self, in a whole year and a half this girl brought one guy over and I got the feeling she was kinda interested in me meeting him ( weird).

She laughs at my stupid jokes and gives me this very subtle looks.

THE QUESTIONS:

Do these signs I perceived mean anything at all?

Should I go for it? I broke up with the ex 5 months ago, I run into the roommate a couple of weeks ago and she was VERY interested about what happened as they are not close at all and don't even talk that much.

Would I be an ******* for trying something with my ex's roommate?

Whats the move here???

Thank you for reading!!!!!!!!!!!

Sounds like a personal choice. Personally I thin I would try to meet more women in place of fishing from the same pool. But If it came easypeasey then fu*K it.
 
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