"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Broke up with the gf now I really like her roommate!! ?

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Hello, new here and I was hoping to get some thoughts on this.
Broke up with the ex of 1 and a half year 5 months ago, we didn't live together, I broke it off simply because it wasn't working, we weren't compatible at all, I did my best.

During this time with this lady I met her roommate who is very nice and good looking , want to clarify I did not flirt or hit on her during my relationship, did I ck her out? hell yeah!

While hanging out at their place, the roommate, gave me some vibes that triggered some curiosity from my part, . For example, I am from an specific place where we like to drink this rare drink, well , one day I walk into the kitchen and she had that drink sitting there in plain view, was it coincidence? idk. (note this girl is kinda shy)

Then, she would ask me to open cans/ bottles for her when she actually could do it her self, in a whole year and a half this girl brought one guy over and I got the feeling she was kinda interested in me meeting him ( weird).

She laughs at my stupid jokes and gives me this very subtle looks.

THE QUESTIONS:

Do these signs I perceived mean anything at all?

Should I go for it? I broke up with the ex 5 months ago, I run into the roommate a couple of weeks ago and she was VERY interested about what happened as they are not close at all and don't even talk that much.

Would I be an ******* for trying something with my ex's roommate?

Whats the move here???

Thank you for reading!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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amazingswayze

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If you want to game her, do it. She's your ex, that means she's in the past. Don't feel bad. It's okay for you to see your ex's roommate. She seems easy to get along with.

Best of luck!
 

Speculator E

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There's people that end up dating their ex's sister and you're worry about a roommate? Just go for it dude.
 

El Payaso

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Go for it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yungballa

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LOL, she a room mate. Forget your ex, there's a reason she's your ex. She's in the PAST.

You're living in the NOW, so what's wrong with messing with the ex's room mate? It's your choice, and the ex is out of your life. You're the master of your life, what should stop you from going after what you want? A darned ex from your past? Hell no.
 

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Copy that!! I was just a little worried when the ex finds out, tha would be very uncomfortable for the two being roommates but I guess I will do it anyway!!
 

TheMagician

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Woodman said:
Hello, new here and I was hoping to get some thoughts on this.
Broke up with the ex of 1 and a half year 5 months ago, we didn't live together, I broke it off simply because it wasn't working, we weren't compatible at all, I did my best.

During this time with this lady I met her roommate who is very nice and good looking , want to clarify I did not flirt or hit on her during my relationship, did I ck her out? hell yeah!

While hanging out at their place, the roommate, gave me some vibes that triggered some curiosity from my part, . For example, I am from an specific place where we like to drink this rare drink, well , one day I walk into the kitchen and she had that drink sitting there in plain view, was it coincidence? idk. (note this girl is kinda shy)

Then, she would ask me to open cans/ bottles for her when she actually could do it her self, in a whole year and a half this girl brought one guy over and I got the feeling she was kinda interested in me meeting him ( weird).

She laughs at my stupid jokes and gives me this very subtle looks.

THE QUESTIONS:

Do these signs I perceived mean anything at all?

Should I go for it? I broke up with the ex 5 months ago, I run into the roommate a couple of weeks ago and she was VERY interested about what happened as they are not close at all and don't even talk that much.

Would I be an ******* for trying something with my ex's roommate?

Whats the move here???

Thank you for reading!!!!!!!!!!!

Sounds like a personal choice. Personally I thin I would try to meet more women in place of fishing from the same pool. But If it came easypeasey then fu*K it.
 
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