"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Broke up with my girl three times in less than two months.Is she at the 49% level?

LeaderOfMen81

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So the girl was at 99% at first all over me even admitted she was more to
Into me than was into her. Bought me expensive gifts that i tried to refuse.

The girl was all over me. Early on she said she Told me she felt wrong about what we had because she had a bf and I'm married. I said that if she wanted we could stop and I did. I called her to say I wanted back in because I wanted to continue she was crying and she wanted back in.

Another time after she broke up with her boyfriend I asked why she was so sad about he break up with him and asked if she wanted to go back to him and told her I was done. We got back on hours later. I realized it was tough for her to break up a long term relationship and reassessed. she was moping around and answers and we were back.

this time I was pissed when she told me she had seen her ex at a party her family threw and before that she had given his mom a huge cash gift abd wanted to know if it was ok TJ give him one for Christmas. I blew up and broke it off sort of again. She says I have hurt her too many times that she never felt like this for a man and each break up destroys her and she promised hersef not to let me back in because she won't be hurt again. I sort of begged on text called a bunch with no answer I was dumb. Anyway went to her job and saw her she let me in the car with some resistance and asked for two days to think about us with no iteruption because she says seeing me and hearing my voice makes her want to continue with me and clouds her judgment.

After two days turns out her grandfather died she 's Jewish and has to sot Shivah in Brooklyn for 7 days. I called and texted things seemed better but the replies were not consistent. So I knvented a story about a car accident with another girl to make her jealous. She got upset but said she didn't care she wasn't my wife and I am now going to wait 5 days before contacting her. Not sure if this girl lost comete interest or not
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr_Maximus

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you both sounds pretty ****ed up to be honest.

Stop cheating on your wife or end it with her.
 

VladPatton

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Divorce Your wife ASAP, then play around.
 

collosuss

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I won't be helping u cheat on your wife... Part of being a man is keeping your WORD including marriage vows...
 

Eph

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I read this as I got back together with my girl several times AFTER breaking up. You broke up with her for a reason. Fvck interest level, it's time to move on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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