"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broke up with my girl three times in less than two months.Is she at the 49% level?

LeaderOfMen81

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So the girl was at 99% at first all over me even admitted she was more to
Into me than was into her. Bought me expensive gifts that i tried to refuse.

The girl was all over me. Early on she said she Told me she felt wrong about what we had because she had a bf and I'm married. I said that if she wanted we could stop and I did. I called her to say I wanted back in because I wanted to continue she was crying and she wanted back in.

Another time after she broke up with her boyfriend I asked why she was so sad about he break up with him and asked if she wanted to go back to him and told her I was done. We got back on hours later. I realized it was tough for her to break up a long term relationship and reassessed. she was moping around and answers and we were back.

this time I was pissed when she told me she had seen her ex at a party her family threw and before that she had given his mom a huge cash gift abd wanted to know if it was ok TJ give him one for Christmas. I blew up and broke it off sort of again. She says I have hurt her too many times that she never felt like this for a man and each break up destroys her and she promised hersef not to let me back in because she won't be hurt again. I sort of begged on text called a bunch with no answer I was dumb. Anyway went to her job and saw her she let me in the car with some resistance and asked for two days to think about us with no iteruption because she says seeing me and hearing my voice makes her want to continue with me and clouds her judgment.

After two days turns out her grandfather died she 's Jewish and has to sot Shivah in Brooklyn for 7 days. I called and texted things seemed better but the replies were not consistent. So I knvented a story about a car accident with another girl to make her jealous. She got upset but said she didn't care she wasn't my wife and I am now going to wait 5 days before contacting her. Not sure if this girl lost comete interest or not
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr_Maximus

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you both sounds pretty ****ed up to be honest.

Stop cheating on your wife or end it with her.
 

VladPatton

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Divorce Your wife ASAP, then play around.
 

collosuss

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I won't be helping u cheat on your wife... Part of being a man is keeping your WORD including marriage vows...
 

Eph

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I read this as I got back together with my girl several times AFTER breaking up. You broke up with her for a reason. Fvck interest level, it's time to move on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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