"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broke up with my GF

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Alright as in previous threads I mentioned me and my gf really loved each other. But because of her family being orthodox and me being muslim they hate me a lot. Im also turkish and they are greek making matters worst.. Cyprus anyone!??

I am really down about this.. We loved each other a lot and it has ended. When she gets back to school I can talk to her on phone with her friends phones.

We broke up over the phone only place we could talk. She told me her parents told her they would never respect me because I am not Greek. I told her I understood she then went on and told me she loved me and stuff. But in end we agreed if we didn't break up they would come after me more. I also told her that her parents were racists. Also it would ruin her life more.So we ended it.

This has given me some hate towards her family.. She went onto say her parents found the letters i wrote her .. Which hurt my ego even more as they probably mocked her about it.

I really don't know but it is really rare for people to break up when they both still love each other all relationships end because one person lost interest.. But this is a different scenario and it hurts a lot.

I have no idea what to do.. I am gonna start finding other girls and you know wha, thats not a problem . The problem is we had to break up with no say.. Whats worst is I know i can get over her with effort over a long time but sometimes I cling to the way we made each other felt and it hurts really bad.

I think I need time on this one.
In need of advice..

****n racists *****esss
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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that really sucks, and I'm sorry to hear that this kind of stuff has to happen. One of my favorite things about America is that, overall, the parents and girls I've dealt with in my life has been much more relaxed and understanding than this.

That said, this girls is living under her parents' thumb, and because of that, I'm sorry to say, I don't think there's anything you can do here.

In many of my early relationships in high school the girl's family played a larger role than they do today. It was simply necessary to include them in the equation. Luckily, as girls get older, they get more independent.

If you want to know how to get over her, it's gonna be advice you probably aren't going to want to take. Cut off all contact with her. By not talking to her you'll cool yourself down quicker than if you keep calling her and telling her how much you love her.
 
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Ye thanks for the advice.. This is really hurtful situation and really has given me a lot of anger too.

Keep the help coming in
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We got caught first time.. Then we met in secret. Now we got caught again.Just no way to see her anymore. Well to be honest probably no guy can see her anymore.

Her parents are honestly VERY ANTI MUSLIM and the fact is I actually like there daughter and wasn't ****ing her around.

Do yous have any advice on what I can I say to her as in the second shes allowed out and stuff for us to give it another crack!??!?! Because I would murder any guys who with her after this..
 
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