"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Broke up with my gf last night leaves interesting proposition

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Last night I broke up with my gf of over one year. It was mutual so there really is no heartache on either side.

My ex who I had that broke my AFC loser heart 4 years ago is trying to bribe me into bringing her food with a *******. I told her to go screw, but that leaves an interesting question.


If I made her earn it, would it be wrong to do so?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what ex is asking you? I count 2 right?

If you want to be a gopher, feel free.

For an ex to get me to bring her anything she'd better expect to pay for my time, gas, mileage and for the food itself. Plus a 20% gratuity. I take cash only.

Being someones servant in exchange for sex is so degrading.
 

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Aye, she was offering compensation for gas, the cost of the food, as well as a ******* on top of it.

I just figure, She has to earn it, ya know? Make her the servant for it lol.
 

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Show us a picture of her and then I can make a better reccomendation lol.
 

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I'd rate her a 5/10, my most recent ex id rate was an 8. I just view it as backwards progress. Dont have a picture of her tho. She gained a bunch of goofy ass facial piercings in the last couple years, so it makes her weird as ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol no dice for me then. She gets full delivery, my rates are very expensive though :) lol
 

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lol, yeah she isnt worth it. Plus I can do waaaay better, daily I get approached at work, so...
 

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....so then why make a post about it if you know you can get better? LOL....someone is lying..
 
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