"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Broke up because of LDR

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hottiedoggie

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Hi, just a few days ago my ex and I broke up, the main reason for it is because of the future prospect of a long distance relationship. You see, I'm a military personnel and the next year, i will be having an overseas training for 10 months. Before the break up, I too had a small scale oversea training that lasted 2 months and during those 2 months, my ex told me she me miss dearly. Both of us got together 2 days before my small scale oversea training, thus we do not have a strong foundation in our relationship. During our talk for the break up, she told me that she didn't like me enough to sacrifice doing long distance relationship for 10 months with me. A couple days ago, i went to meet up with her to give her a doll and a letter. This acts as a closure, now I'm preparing to go NC with her for 1 month hoping that it will get her to miss me since she told me she missed me while i'm having the 2 months overseas training. Is that the correct thing to do? Also i would like to ask, does me seeing her snapchat stories and her seeing my snapchat stories mean that i broke the NC?

I know that many of you would suggest me to move on but i do not want to give up on her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hottiedoggie said:
gonna try and get on with life. if she comes back its a bonus
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It's tough but get out of this mindset. If you hang about hoping she will come back- you'll eat yourself.

Get on with your life. Your life with HER is OVER. Your life with someone new is around the corner.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She got out the CRAYON'S and drew you a PICTURE.... a good one that you don't have to GUESS at it's meaning..... but you STILL want to. THIS is over
 
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