"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Broke up because of LDR

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hottiedoggie

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Hi, just a few days ago my ex and I broke up, the main reason for it is because of the future prospect of a long distance relationship. You see, I'm a military personnel and the next year, i will be having an overseas training for 10 months. Before the break up, I too had a small scale oversea training that lasted 2 months and during those 2 months, my ex told me she me miss dearly. Both of us got together 2 days before my small scale oversea training, thus we do not have a strong foundation in our relationship. During our talk for the break up, she told me that she didn't like me enough to sacrifice doing long distance relationship for 10 months with me. A couple days ago, i went to meet up with her to give her a doll and a letter. This acts as a closure, now I'm preparing to go NC with her for 1 month hoping that it will get her to miss me since she told me she missed me while i'm having the 2 months overseas training. Is that the correct thing to do? Also i would like to ask, does me seeing her snapchat stories and her seeing my snapchat stories mean that i broke the NC?

I know that many of you would suggest me to move on but i do not want to give up on her
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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hottiedoggie said:
gonna try and get on with life. if she comes back its a bonus
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It's tough but get out of this mindset. If you hang about hoping she will come back- you'll eat yourself.

Get on with your life. Your life with HER is OVER. Your life with someone new is around the corner.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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She got out the CRAYON'S and drew you a PICTURE.... a good one that you don't have to GUESS at it's meaning..... but you STILL want to. THIS is over
 
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