Broke up a while ago.. feeling a bit crappy

[paymon]

I dumped my gf of about 5 months a little while ago. I ended it right before I left the country for three weeks. I've been out for two weeks and still have a week until i return. Funny thing is she moves out to the college town (same place I will be moving to but in 3 weeks) the same day I get back.

At first she was almost begging me to stay, she was depressed and crying for days. I havent had any contact until today when she emailed saying "how much happier she was since we broke up" , yeah right, how could that be true when you were crying so hard and home-ridden for a week.

I guess its just a feeling that takes a while to get over... but atleast on the night i dumped her i went to a party and totally social-proofed the place and had the only three hot girls at the place on me. It seems when im out with other people im great, but when i think of her and the relationship i start feeling like crap.

Any suggestions./comments/advice appreciated.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by paymon
I dumped my gf of about 5 months a little while ago. I ended it right before I left the country for three weeks. I've been out for two weeks and still have a week until i return. Funny thing is she moves out to the college town (same place I will be moving to but in 3 weeks) the same day I get back.

At first she was almost begging me to stay, she was depressed and crying for days. I havent had any contact until today when she emailed saying "how much happier she was since we broke up" , yeah right, how could that be true when you were crying so hard and home-ridden for a week.

I guess its just a feeling that takes a while to get over... but atleast on the night i dumped her i went to a party and totally social-proofed the place and had the only three hot girls at the place on me. It seems when im out with other people im great, but when i think of her and the relationship i start feeling like crap.

Any suggestions./comments/advice appreciated.

If she was really so "OK" with the break up, she wouldn't feel the need to let you know.

You dumped her, now move on and forget about her. Women don't dwell on their decisions like men do. Act the same way.

 

[runnincircles]

Music helps get over things... I dunno, that's all I can remember about how I got over break ups in my AFC days.

 

[Zhen]

if thinking about her makes you feel crappy,

stop thinking of her then

 

[Big Eee Zee]

Originally posted by runnincircles
Music helps get over things... I dunno, that's all I can remember about how I got over break ups in my AFC days.

too true. I HATE angry white people music for the most part (I'm a jazz man myself) but I have to say, early Korn like untouchables is GREAT breakup music. the songs are all about hating her for what she did to you, or similar topics. I'm surprised more people haven't recommended it.