"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Broke My One-Itis, Picked Up A Latin Dancer :)

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Ever since my debacle last month where I was in total control and than went into AFC and the girl stopped calling me I have been trying to crack my oneitis. Not a very bad case but that spinning plate thing is very true.

My coworker last night took to a very nice gentleman's club. A beautiful Latina took a liking to me. The next thing you know she was sitting on my lap and asked me if I wanted to play with her. I was like um, is this a trick question ;) . I was teasing and giving her a hard time. I was totally relaxed and didnt give 2 bits about it because I was there for just entertainment.

Anyway she took me in the back and climbed all over me. After a few songs I couldnt take it anymore. She said you have a lot of self control ;) and thats a good thing, usually men cant resist me ;). I said to her if I ask for your phone number will you give it to me?

She said yes, you are really cute (even though I have to be at least 10 years older than her). She told me when to call her when she would be home and told me she is off on Sundays and Mondays. I said ok and went on my way. Her name was Julianna by the way.

So I guess this is a good a way as any to break my oneitis ;).

I figure I will wait maybe a few days and than call her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the dances - about 60 bucks. For the number, nothing. Not much different than taking a woman to dinner. Infinitely more entertaining.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah I started approaching and talking to alot of girls and it does kinda stop the hurt, especially when it seems the girls are interested.

Hopefully she gets you're self esteem nice and strong.
 
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