"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Broke My One-Itis, Picked Up A Latin Dancer :)

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tincanman99

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Ever since my debacle last month where I was in total control and than went into AFC and the girl stopped calling me I have been trying to crack my oneitis. Not a very bad case but that spinning plate thing is very true.

My coworker last night took to a very nice gentleman's club. A beautiful Latina took a liking to me. The next thing you know she was sitting on my lap and asked me if I wanted to play with her. I was like um, is this a trick question ;) . I was teasing and giving her a hard time. I was totally relaxed and didnt give 2 bits about it because I was there for just entertainment.

Anyway she took me in the back and climbed all over me. After a few songs I couldnt take it anymore. She said you have a lot of self control ;) and thats a good thing, usually men cant resist me ;). I said to her if I ask for your phone number will you give it to me?

She said yes, you are really cute (even though I have to be at least 10 years older than her). She told me when to call her when she would be home and told me she is off on Sundays and Mondays. I said ok and went on my way. Her name was Julianna by the way.

So I guess this is a good a way as any to break my oneitis ;).

I figure I will wait maybe a few days and than call her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For the dances - about 60 bucks. For the number, nothing. Not much different than taking a woman to dinner. Infinitely more entertaining.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah I started approaching and talking to alot of girls and it does kinda stop the hurt, especially when it seems the girls are interested.

Hopefully she gets you're self esteem nice and strong.
 
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