"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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emo or not i don't give a sh1t. i still like this girl but she gave me some bull**** excuse to not talk to me anymore..

i called her on it asking her what was up between us and why she hasn't been the same lately and she let me know that since i am in college and she is a senior in h.s. it wouldn't work out (no **** i just wanted sex), i have my job and she has hers and we never see each other... and our friends don't associate with each other..

i told her for future reference to make time for the people you like after she told me she really liked me... she acted like she didn't understand what i told her but i basically called her BS.

i really liked this girl and didn't think it was gonna turn out like this... all i wanted was a quick **** but i got attached to her... now its hard to stop thinking about her. i know it'll go away once i start talking to other girls.. but it'll somehow be in the back of my mind.

think there is anything to be done to save the situation? or am i SOL.

what should i do the next time i see her? initiate conversation or just ignore her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by pkrx209
emo or not i don't give a sh1t. i still like this girl but she gave me some bull**** excuse to not talk to me anymore..

i called her on it asking her what was up between us and why she hasn't been the same lately and she let me know that since i am in college and she is a senior in h.s. it wouldn't work out (no **** i just wanted sex), i have my job and she has hers and we never see each other... and our friends don't associate with each other..

i told her for future reference to make time for the people you like after she told me she really liked me... she acted like she didn't understand what i told her but i basically called her BS.

i really liked this girl and didn't think it was gonna turn out like this... all i wanted was a quick **** but i got attached to her... now its hard to stop thinking about her. i know it'll go away once i start talking to other girls.. but it'll somehow be in the back of my mind.

think there is anything to be done to save the situation? or am i SOL.

what should i do the next time i see her? initiate conversation or just ignore her?
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Just talk to her like nothing happened :up:. Remember, you have to keep your emotions in check.
 
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