"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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broke it off with a girl v. still like her

pkrx209

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emo or not i don't give a sh1t. i still like this girl but she gave me some bull**** excuse to not talk to me anymore..

i called her on it asking her what was up between us and why she hasn't been the same lately and she let me know that since i am in college and she is a senior in h.s. it wouldn't work out (no **** i just wanted sex), i have my job and she has hers and we never see each other... and our friends don't associate with each other..

i told her for future reference to make time for the people you like after she told me she really liked me... she acted like she didn't understand what i told her but i basically called her BS.

i really liked this girl and didn't think it was gonna turn out like this... all i wanted was a quick **** but i got attached to her... now its hard to stop thinking about her. i know it'll go away once i start talking to other girls.. but it'll somehow be in the back of my mind.

think there is anything to be done to save the situation? or am i SOL.

what should i do the next time i see her? initiate conversation or just ignore her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by pkrx209
emo or not i don't give a sh1t. i still like this girl but she gave me some bull**** excuse to not talk to me anymore..

i called her on it asking her what was up between us and why she hasn't been the same lately and she let me know that since i am in college and she is a senior in h.s. it wouldn't work out (no **** i just wanted sex), i have my job and she has hers and we never see each other... and our friends don't associate with each other..

i told her for future reference to make time for the people you like after she told me she really liked me... she acted like she didn't understand what i told her but i basically called her BS.

i really liked this girl and didn't think it was gonna turn out like this... all i wanted was a quick **** but i got attached to her... now its hard to stop thinking about her. i know it'll go away once i start talking to other girls.. but it'll somehow be in the back of my mind.

think there is anything to be done to save the situation? or am i SOL.

what should i do the next time i see her? initiate conversation or just ignore her?
Just talk to her like nothing happened :up:. Remember, you have to keep your emotions in check.
 
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