"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bro Split vs Push Pull

Georgepithyou

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My current workout routine is

Day 1 Chest + Bicep
Day 2 Legs
Day 3 Back + Tricep
Day 4 Legs
Day 5 Shoulders + Trap
Day 6 Rest
Day 7 Rest

But i keep hearing a push pull workout and training pnly 3 days a week, i just wonder how people are able to do that and for only 30 minutes a day but still make gains?

I've only been working out consistently for 5 weeks now so I'm still a newbie.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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EyeBRollin

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Bro splits are bullshvt. They are promoted by known steroid abusers.

Do Starting Strength or Stronglifts 5X5 for natural "gains."

The only weightlifting exercises really worth a damn are Squat, Deadlifts, Bench Press, Overhead Press, and Chin Ups. You gain nothing as a natural lifter by focusing on lifts that are accessory to those.

A solid goal for any natural lifter is to bench 200, squat 300, and deadlift 400 lb. Until you can hit those numbers, there is no need for "splits."
 

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If you've just started working out 5 weeks ago, I wouldn't worry about splits. I would probably work out either twice a week and do everything, or 4 times a week and break it up as follows:

Monday: Squat, Bench Press, Incline Press
Tuesday: Power Clean, Jerk, Pullups
Wednesday: Abs and Conditioning
Thursday: Leg Press, Dumbbell Bench Press, Dumbbell Incline Press
Friday: Deadlift, Military Press, T-Rows
Saturday: Abs and Conditioning

I'd probably start by going twice a week (a variant of Squat, Press, then Clean/Jerk), with plenty of ab work on other days, to get your core stronger. Do that for 6 weeks then do the workout I outlined above. After 12 weeks, you can start looking at splits so you can add in some isolated lifts to areas where you're struggling to develop.
 

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If you are new to weightlifting then you are going to make gains regardless of what you are doing. Stay consistent, eat healthy and don't go to snap city with your ego lifting.
 

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If you are new to Lifting or want to lift on a budget check out the body beast program by beach body. It's pretty good and I've learned a lot and gained good muscle.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You want to train a muscle group at a minimum 2x/week to facilitate gains in strength via reinforcing movement patterns (practicing the same lift over and over until it becomes technical), as well as keeping the muscle stimulated via muscle protein synthesis (physiological changes in the muscle following a bout of resistance training).

That being said, a typical "bro split" neglects this as usually the muscle is only trained 1x/week. However, you can do hybrid bro splits that incorporate 2x/week trng. I prefer full body, Push/Pull, or Upper/Lower splits to keep muscle frequency consistent.
 

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Push pull is something you do if you're working out every day, to give other muscle groups a rest and avoid injury. If you're working out 3 or 4 times a week you can safely do a full body workout every time. Push pull at 3 days a week isn't very strenuous at all, sounds lame.

Focus on hitting your macros/cals no matter what you do.
 

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My routine is Monday and Tuesday rest. Wednesday running outside 3 to 5km. Then from Thursday to Sunday intense workout with also running outside on Saturday during the day.
 

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Push pull is something you do if you're working out every day, to give other muscle groups a rest and avoid injury. If you're working out 3 or 4 times a week you can safely do a full body workout every time. Push pull at 3 days a week isn't very strenuous at all, sounds lame.

Focus on hitting your macros/cals no matter what you do.
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