"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CrazyDude93

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I and my friend both like a girl . We went out together for a few times ( my friend , the girl , her friend and I ) . We approach the girl in different ways . He showed himself as a needy and clingy man , lavished her with gifts , hope to have a chance with her . I approached the girl in a different way , we just talk and laugh , enjoy the time together . My friend he's tried to set a date with her multiple times but she just refused , and found it annoying . And yes , the girl and i went on a date and it went really well . The thing is my friend he doesn't know about the story . Im now feeling kind of guilty because he likes the girl first , and i knew the girl thanked to him . After the 1st date , i went no contact with her . I don't really know what to do in this situation .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He already lost that girl, you might as well bang her or keep her to yourslef. Talk to him. Point out his mistakes. Give him the red pill Be his wingman. Get him new girls
 

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Does your friend give gifts and stuff to every girl he talks to? If he does then I'd still bang her, but if he did all that cuz he was hopelessly head over heels about her, then I'd probably just move on. I'd definitely talk to him about it tho if we were that close of friends
 

CrazyDude93

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Does your friend give gifts and stuff to every girl he talks to? If he does then I'd still bang her, but if he did all that cuz he was hopelessly head over heels about her, then I'd probably just move on. I'd definitely talk to him about it tho if we were that close of friends
I talked to the girl today about the situation . She said she just felt tired and didn't wanna think about this . I like her but still wanna see what kind of person she really is . My friend can be taken advantage
 
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