"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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British and N.American Girls

Ripper

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What differences do you guys spot between British and N.American girls when you're trying to PU?

My bro just got back from his gap year in Canada and the girls ****in' loved him. More than that, when he went he was apprehensive about the whole trip cos he was overweight and shot of confidence but throughout the course of the year he sort of became the leader of a group of friends. By the end he was the guy all the other guys looked up to and (as a partial consequence I guess) the guy all the girls wanted. Now he has pretty hot international figure-skating girlfriend. Jammy ****er.

The main point is, he told me it was so much easier to talk to girls in N.America cos they already give you a shot, especially if you're different. Also, in general, direct game (actual interactions with the girl herself that help her form an opinion about you) seemed to carry more weight than indirect game (what status you hold in your social circle, what others say about you, whether other girls like you etc).

Certainly my experience of girls at Uni is your indirect game is v.important if you want to get the hottest girls, especially in the first year when for the most part people are in halls (americans call them dorms).

What do you lot think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I´m from Germany and I gotta say hooking up with a hot chick here is next to impossible. You either have to be rich or be a rockstar otherwise they won´t give you a chance.
Girls in N. America are way easier to talk to. It seems that it´s the easiest thing in the world.
 

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Didn't I answer this question for someone a while back? Hmm hold on let me go check, then I'll post the edit here lol.

LOL ChrisZ It was you who I said this too...

Well the reason you were popular in America is because you were from another country. American women love people with accents, from different countries, unique cultural things etc. It just is a alpha thing sorta... women are curious they don't want the american men who do the same thing...

Going back to Germany you were just the same as every other guy there. If I went to Germany I could say anything stupid and the women would love me, because I was a tourist who had confidence.
 

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So to follow up, its not that American or Canadian women are easier... its the simple fact that among everyone you are strictly unique. It could eb considered "Perfect Peacocking" in that its somethign natural to you, its different, makes you stand out, but because you've always done that you're completely natural in what you're doing.

For me, I went to Brazil for a few weeks and I just asked a question of where somethign was from a cute girl and she'd go with me, and it was easy lays lol. Again because I was unique among a lot of the same.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bussey said:
Didn't I answer this question for someone a while back? Hmm hold on let me go check, then I'll post the edit here lol.

LOL ChrisZ It was you who I said this too...

Well the reason you were popular in America is because you were from another country. American women love people with accents, from different countries, unique cultural things etc. It just is a alpha thing sorta... women are curious they don't want the american men who do the same thing...

Going back to Germany you were just the same as every other guy there. If I went to Germany I could say anything stupid and the women would love me, because I was a tourist who had confidence.
Well, I also was approached by chicks that didn´t know I was foreign. They didn´t even know me and were yelling "Oh, you´re so hot!" lol. It´s just that American chicks are more outgoing.
 

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Lol, or you could have had a rep as the 'Foreign Guy' hahaha. Then that would have been reason enough without knowing you. ;)
 

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Bussey said:
Lol, or you could have had a rep as the 'Foreign Guy' hahaha. Then that would have been reason enough without knowing you. ;)
I´m the Germanator...:rockon:
 

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I think also the accent really helps. If you speak the Queen's English like Prince Will, apparently american chicks go wild for it. My mate who went told me it was like being able to pull two leagues above you. (i.e. if you're a 7 you can pull an HB9)
 

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B*tches at my school think the nerdy little German kid is "hot" because he's German. He makes no sense when he talks but they say it's HOT.


Poor kid.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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British and N.American Girls

they both suck.
in saying that, he was different. americans are a very provincial lot. they think a british accent is exotic. plus, british guys are not scary. they are like americans, but with a crappy accent.

the problem for british guys is that they are screwing it up for themselves in the places where the girls really are amazing looking. the most annoying british tradition (and there are many of them) is the notorious "stag party". this is where a group of drunk british "lads" go to a relatively poor place with massive quantities of very alluring girls (tallinn, riga, vilnius, and pretty soon kiev are hot destinations for the circuit) and make stupid fools of themselves. they whistle at every pretty girl who walks by in a short skirt and super high heels, one of them always seems dressed up as spiderman or a cow, and they are walking targets for the russian mafia to scam. ryanair and (sl)easy jet thank you.
 

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sparky0000 said:
one of them always seems dressed up as spiderman or a cow
WTF? I never understood the Brits, and I'm from the most British city in Canada.
 

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realsmoothie said:
WTF? I never understood the Brits, and I'm from the most British city in Canada.
What's the most British city in Canada?

Sparky, if you go and have a stag night out and act like a bunch of neanderthals then it'll turn women off wherever you are. Fortunately, I have a proper British accent and a fair degree of class and style. Both should get me more tail than I know what to do with when I visit.:rockon:
 
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