"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brit in America: The Journal

L777

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Right, this is going to be epic. In exactly 2 weeks I'm starting my second university term, in an American university (Missouri). This is going to be a year long journal of FR's, LR's etc etc. I'm just going to try and get as many as possible, I really can't be bothered with relationships or whatever.

A little bit about me: 20 years old, 6"2' 170lb (but always bulking) probably about a 7.5/8 out of 10 in looks (i.e my face). Style is just sort of, British trendy: jeans and trainers (sneakers) with a fitted T-shirt most of the time, and spikey, short brown hair. Soccer player, musician, fairly intelligent, been in the game about 3 years and have had decent success.

SO, I would love some input from you guys, particularly American dudes and particularly students. How should I sarge in the states seeing as a lot of girls won't know anything about the topics I would talk about back here? Who should I socialise with, which kids are popular in the states (I'm assuming its not the soccer players, lol)? etc. Just general input would be nice.

I hope you can all get something out of this, and if you're in Missouri, gimme a PM and I can wingman with you.....the accent is a good opener I would imagine. :D In fact, if you're a student, you should do your own journal: University is a GREAT place for getting laid!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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On Point

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The only strategy you'll need is talk with your accent. Damn you! :)
 

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You´ll notice that american women (and people in general) are very talkative and easy to talk to. People are also a lot less serious in the states. As long as you don´t act like a weirdo or piss people off, you´ll be fine...
 

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On Point said:
The only strategy you'll need is talk with your accent. Damn you! :)
Think about it, a Brit speaking ****ney in Missouri... I can imagine it as a SNL skit... :crackup:
 

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Hah, you're gonna have it so easy because of your english accent and style. You won't even have to try.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Think about it, a Brit speaking ****ney in Missouri... I can imagine it as a SNL skit... :crackup:
Lol I find the ****ney accent funny too! I'm actually a Northerner....which means I say "Lun-dun" for London instead of "Lan-den" amongst other things. :D But I'm a huge fan of the American Southern drawl.....You know, "y'all" and all that stuff....its pretty hot. :D:D
 

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Everyone is right all you got to do is talk with your accent and kablam you are laid. Lucky ass bastard lol.
 

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L777 said:
Lol I find the ****ney accent funny too! I'm actually a Northerner....which means I say "Lun-dun" for London instead of "Lan-den" amongst other things. :D
Oh, as if you would admit that you were from the east side... Pfffffttttt..... :p
 

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You'll do good. Just don't do anything stupid like try to talk to girls about soccer and you'll be ok.:up:
 
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