"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brit in America: The Journal

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Right, this is going to be epic. In exactly 2 weeks I'm starting my second university term, in an American university (Missouri). This is going to be a year long journal of FR's, LR's etc etc. I'm just going to try and get as many as possible, I really can't be bothered with relationships or whatever.

A little bit about me: 20 years old, 6"2' 170lb (but always bulking) probably about a 7.5/8 out of 10 in looks (i.e my face). Style is just sort of, British trendy: jeans and trainers (sneakers) with a fitted T-shirt most of the time, and spikey, short brown hair. Soccer player, musician, fairly intelligent, been in the game about 3 years and have had decent success.

SO, I would love some input from you guys, particularly American dudes and particularly students. How should I sarge in the states seeing as a lot of girls won't know anything about the topics I would talk about back here? Who should I socialise with, which kids are popular in the states (I'm assuming its not the soccer players, lol)? etc. Just general input would be nice.

I hope you can all get something out of this, and if you're in Missouri, gimme a PM and I can wingman with you.....the accent is a good opener I would imagine. :D In fact, if you're a student, you should do your own journal: University is a GREAT place for getting laid!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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On Point

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The only strategy you'll need is talk with your accent. Damn you! :)
 

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You´ll notice that american women (and people in general) are very talkative and easy to talk to. People are also a lot less serious in the states. As long as you don´t act like a weirdo or piss people off, you´ll be fine...
 

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On Point said:
The only strategy you'll need is talk with your accent. Damn you! :)
Think about it, a Brit speaking ****ney in Missouri... I can imagine it as a SNL skit... :crackup:
 

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Hah, you're gonna have it so easy because of your english accent and style. You won't even have to try.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Think about it, a Brit speaking ****ney in Missouri... I can imagine it as a SNL skit... :crackup:
Lol I find the ****ney accent funny too! I'm actually a Northerner....which means I say "Lun-dun" for London instead of "Lan-den" amongst other things. :D But I'm a huge fan of the American Southern drawl.....You know, "y'all" and all that stuff....its pretty hot. :D:D
 

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Everyone is right all you got to do is talk with your accent and kablam you are laid. Lucky ass bastard lol.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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L777 said:
Lol I find the ****ney accent funny too! I'm actually a Northerner....which means I say "Lun-dun" for London instead of "Lan-den" amongst other things. :D
Oh, as if you would admit that you were from the east side... Pfffffttttt..... :p
 

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You'll do good. Just don't do anything stupid like try to talk to girls about soccer and you'll be ok.:up:
 
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