"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bringing up sex/talking about it openly

john_1234

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majority of times for me, girls are the first to bring up sex and from there, the conversation takes off. but when i encounter a girl who doesn't bring up sex first, then it would be my job to bring the topic up. how can i come across to girls that i am a sexual-being... that i am not shy nor do i have any hang-ups about sex? how can i do so without coming across as a pervert/sex-fiend?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THE_ADDMAN

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try making a sexual joke (IF SHES THE FUN TYPE)

dont make too many, however, or it'll show you cant take the topic seriously.

make one or 2 then transition into more serious sexual talk
 

WORKEROUTER

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john_1234 said:
majority of times for me, girls are the first to bring up sex and from there, the conversation takes off. but when i encounter a girl who doesn't bring up sex first, then it would be my job to bring the topic up. how can i come across to girls that i am a sexual-being... that i am not shy nor do i have any hang-ups about sex? how can i do so without coming across as a pervert/sex-fiend?

You don't need to "say" anything.

If you're applying KINO correctly, she'll do all the talking.
 
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