majority of times for me, girls are the first to bring up sex and from there, the conversation takes off. but when i encounter a girl who doesn't bring up sex first, then it would be my job to bring the topic up. how can i come across to girls that i am a sexual-being... that i am not shy nor do i have any hang-ups about sex? how can i do so without coming across as a pervert/sex-fiend?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bringing up sex/talking about it openly
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