"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bringing up sex/talking about it openly

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*Setting sexual expectations early is important. Do this when you meet a woman. Women love a man who can make it clear and not waste their time on murkiness.
*Women feel more comfortable with an out-in-the-open sexual acting man than a presume-he-is-hiding-something platonic acting man.

it's important to be able to chat about sex openly. i've been doing the same thing over and over: bringing up the show "sex in the city" which sometimes, not all the time, branches off into chatting about sex. how do you guys bring up sex and openly talk about it w/ a new girl?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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all i know is if i admitted to watching sex and the city i would get a beat down
 

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i told girls something along the lines, "my friend's fiance is always watching sex in the city. the past few times i've visited, she has a sex in the city dvd on.... so what's so big about this show?"

should have pointed this out earlier. i do agree w/ you; telling a girl that you watch this show probably wouldn't amp the attraction level for ya
 

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hmmm the last time I brought it up er wait I think I just made a move on her and then we had the sex talk. Oooh the pain oooh the blue balls needless to say I couldn't wait until she left cus I needed to bust a nut (she was an effin hottie)
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
i told girls something along the lines, "my friend's fiance is always watching sex in the city. the past few times i've visited, she has a sex in the city dvd on.... so what's so big about this show?"

should have pointed this out earlier. i do agree w/ you; telling a girl that you watch this show probably wouldn't amp the attraction level for ya
gettin ur ass beat down prlly wouldnt either
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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