"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bringing girls home

johnmich

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What do you do if you want to go somewhere with a girl (such as your house) but you have parents and siblings so it cant b at yours.

What would you do instead if hers is also not an option?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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johnmich

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Yes but i cant. I got my mum and dad in the house and a little brother.
My brother always comes in and **** cos hes a disrespectful little cvnt - trust me.

I ant got a lock on ma door so any other suggestions ??
 

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1. brace your door with somethin'
2. find a fast food restroom or something and bang the flock out of her.
3. If you want the booty enough you'll find a way.
 

DJDamage

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Originally posted by johnmich
Yes but i cant. I got my mum and dad in the house and a little brother.
My brother always comes in and **** cos hes a disrespectful little cvnt - trust me.

I ant got a lock on ma door so any other suggestions ??
You don't need a lock on the door, all you want is your parents out of the house for a few hours.

All you do is give your parents $30 ask them to take your brother to the movies and not to come back too early.

DjDamage
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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johnmich

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Its not that easy. Firstly, i live in the UK so $30 would not work.

I am talking about on say a sat / fri night and its late and your parents and siblings are home for the night watchin TV or summat.

There really is no where to go, i dont think this is gonna be easy.

Damn my sh!tty living situation
 

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ask a friend to use his spot, but sometimes dudes are gonna want you to share the wealth in return. or, just move out.
 

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Originally posted by johnmich


I am talking about on say a sat / fri night and its late and your parents and siblings are home for the night watchin TV or summat.

Just go with the flow. Bring her to your home and then go with her to your room. If someone opens the door to get an eyefull they might learn a thing or two lol.
 

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I have had some offers from Uni so it will be great when i go.

:D
 

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Nothing wrong with taking her to a cheap motel for the night. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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johnmich

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This is in the UK in bradford. There are no motels never mind cheap ones. :(
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Move out. That's the only way to get around this... unless you want to get a motel, but then it'll make her feel like a hooker. R U bringing home hookers? :p

why not try her place?
 

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I really don't see the problem here.

When I lived with my folks, I used to bang girls everywhere.. the mall, the subway, the park.

Where's your sense of adventure?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by DonMEgaHoss
1. brace your door with somethin'
2. find a fast food restroom or something and bang the flock out of her.
3. If you want the booty enough you'll find a way.
LOL... somehow I'd like to see the look on the parents face while he tells him, "I want to bang a girl, can you guys clear out for a while?"
 

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i personally move around too much in the car and like girls on top, ,which doesn't work as well in the car

great for BJ's though
 

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Just bring her home and take her into your room. If your parents bug you about it, say "jeez, can't a guy get laid around here?"
 

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I ant got a lock on ma door so any other suggestions ??
Buy one! I did this when I had to move back in with my parents and little brother (though they generally respect my privacy without a lock). I just bought a door knob with a simple, built in bathroom-style lock and replaced the old knob. I also bought the same style knob so they look nearly identical.

It would also be a good idea to teach your brother to respect your space. Use your imagination on how to do that. I recommend copious amounts of non lethal violence :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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