She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pvssy is pvssy. It doesn't give anyone the right to be homphobic, directly abusive and degrading on a site that does have quality people. Quality people that don't need to trash others.ryannath said:I agree that skip could sometimes flame topics and kind of make fun of something someone said, but he does make some good posts, and he does have some experience with women, which I can't say that about most guys on here. And, if you don't believe me, there was a poll awhile back on here and the poll showed that most guys on here are virgins that have never even kissed a girl. I am no expert myself, being that I have only been with 3 women. But, I think skip should get to come back because he has interacted with women and actually scored.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
which good posts? which experience? PLease enlighten me!ryannath said:I agree that skip could sometimes flame topics and kind of make fun of something someone said, but he does make some good posts, and he does have some experience with women, which I can't say that about most guys on here. And, if you don't believe me, there was a poll awhile back on here and the poll showed that most guys on here are virgins that have never even kissed a girl. I am no expert myself, being that I have only been with 3 women. But, I think skip should get to come back because he has interacted with women and actually scored.
Fair enough, an opinion is valid. Same rules for all though. If you're abusive, you're out the door. "Good posts" or not.ye yeah said:i liked his posts,i reckon he should be back,plus he got ****ed over to get banned so he should be back
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
please post them up. i havnt seen one. i dont know HOw skip could ever contribute to this website.ryannath said:sexy kuta, i found some of skip's posts about certain girls that he was seeing to be helpful. Like, when he was around them, the things he said. Things of that nature. But, I do think he was kinda annoying sometimes and he could get into some childish arguments back and forth that amounted to nothing, and get off topic, and when someone didn't agree with him, by calling them AFC's for not agreeing with him 100%. But, I'm done with this thread now. Peace.
yea real life! your soo right doN! thats why you have multiple fuking usernames here and and spend MOSt of your life trolling..DonDan said:Skip is the only person i know that actually has a life outside of this forumn, and actually DOES get that pu55y. He speaked purely from experience. You didnt like the sound of it? Well you need to start cus we live in the REAL WORLD, which he knew, REAL WOMEN how to lay them, he wasnt just some DJ robot. You guys had a problem with what he said was prolly the reason why u guys still never get any. HaHa!!! Fukin virgins!! LOL! Lmao. Im playing.... only killkam is the virgin on this forumn. Always Will be!!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DonDan said:Only killakam doesn't get any.
You don't even know my name, let alone details of my sex life. Oh wait, do you know my name? If you get it right, i'll give you a lollipop, and a shred of dignity.DonDan said:So you're saying you do?? Hah... dont even try to lead anyone on. We all know you're a virgin who attempts to talk likes hes big time pimp shyt.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.