Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Pvssy is pvssy. It doesn't give anyone the right to be homphobic, directly abusive and degrading on a site that does have quality people. Quality people that don't need to trash others.ryannath said:I agree that skip could sometimes flame topics and kind of make fun of something someone said, but he does make some good posts, and he does have some experience with women, which I can't say that about most guys on here. And, if you don't believe me, there was a poll awhile back on here and the poll showed that most guys on here are virgins that have never even kissed a girl. I am no expert myself, being that I have only been with 3 women. But, I think skip should get to come back because he has interacted with women and actually scored.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
which good posts? which experience? PLease enlighten me!ryannath said:I agree that skip could sometimes flame topics and kind of make fun of something someone said, but he does make some good posts, and he does have some experience with women, which I can't say that about most guys on here. And, if you don't believe me, there was a poll awhile back on here and the poll showed that most guys on here are virgins that have never even kissed a girl. I am no expert myself, being that I have only been with 3 women. But, I think skip should get to come back because he has interacted with women and actually scored.
Fair enough, an opinion is valid. Same rules for all though. If you're abusive, you're out the door. "Good posts" or not.ye yeah said:i liked his posts,i reckon he should be back,plus he got ****ed over to get banned so he should be back
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
please post them up. i havnt seen one. i dont know HOw skip could ever contribute to this website.ryannath said:sexy kuta, i found some of skip's posts about certain girls that he was seeing to be helpful. Like, when he was around them, the things he said. Things of that nature. But, I do think he was kinda annoying sometimes and he could get into some childish arguments back and forth that amounted to nothing, and get off topic, and when someone didn't agree with him, by calling them AFC's for not agreeing with him 100%. But, I'm done with this thread now. Peace.
yea real life! your soo right doN! thats why you have multiple fuking usernames here and and spend MOSt of your life trolling..DonDan said:Skip is the only person i know that actually has a life outside of this forumn, and actually DOES get that pu55y. He speaked purely from experience. You didnt like the sound of it? Well you need to start cus we live in the REAL WORLD, which he knew, REAL WOMEN how to lay them, he wasnt just some DJ robot. You guys had a problem with what he said was prolly the reason why u guys still never get any. HaHa!!! Fukin virgins!! LOL! Lmao. Im playing.... only killkam is the virgin on this forumn. Always Will be!!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonDan said:Only killakam doesn't get any.
You don't even know my name, let alone details of my sex life. Oh wait, do you know my name? If you get it right, i'll give you a lollipop, and a shred of dignity.DonDan said:So you're saying you do?? Hah... dont even try to lead anyone on. We all know you're a virgin who attempts to talk likes hes big time pimp shyt.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.