apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
I think your interaction was OK overall but I wouldn't have sent her pics. I know it was a joke but humor can be hit and miss via text so I would try to refrain, at least until you have more rapport and know her sense of humor.
When she mentioned the "serious boyfriend" I would've asked if her boyfriend is cool with her making out with random dudes from salsa class.
That being said I do like how you tried to play the boyfriend comment but I don't think her current IL is all that high because, judging by her actions, she would cheat on her boyfriend in a flash!
As others have said, you dodged a bullet, major disconnect between her words and actions, terrible overall character and GUARANTEED to bring DRAMA!
Quick question: did you try to isolate her from her friends and bounce her from the venue?
I'm thinking her IL was high at the time, she was making out with you, the dancing might have turned her etc. The iron seemed hot so you should've tried to strike right then and there. She probably feels bad for skanking around on her boyfriend, of course only if he ACTUALLY exists.
When she mentioned the "serious boyfriend" I would've asked if her boyfriend is cool with her making out with random dudes from salsa class.
That being said I do like how you tried to play the boyfriend comment but I don't think her current IL is all that high because, judging by her actions, she would cheat on her boyfriend in a flash!
As others have said, you dodged a bullet, major disconnect between her words and actions, terrible overall character and GUARANTEED to bring DRAMA!
Quick question: did you try to isolate her from her friends and bounce her from the venue?
I'm thinking her IL was high at the time, she was making out with you, the dancing might have turned her etc. The iron seemed hot so you should've tried to strike right then and there. She probably feels bad for skanking around on her boyfriend, of course only if he ACTUALLY exists.
