"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bring on the Critique

apprenticedj

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I think your interaction was OK overall but I wouldn't have sent her pics. I know it was a joke but humor can be hit and miss via text so I would try to refrain, at least until you have more rapport and know her sense of humor.

When she mentioned the "serious boyfriend" I would've asked if her boyfriend is cool with her making out with random dudes from salsa class.
That being said I do like how you tried to play the boyfriend comment but I don't think her current IL is all that high because, judging by her actions, she would cheat on her boyfriend in a flash!

As others have said, you dodged a bullet, major disconnect between her words and actions, terrible overall character and GUARANTEED to bring DRAMA!

Quick question: did you try to isolate her from her friends and bounce her from the venue?

I'm thinking her IL was high at the time, she was making out with you, the dancing might have turned her etc. The iron seemed hot so you should've tried to strike right then and there. She probably feels bad for skanking around on her boyfriend, of course only if he ACTUALLY exists.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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She's a cheater and scandalous... Why would you want to mess with here anyway?

The moment a chick kisses you and then says she can't mess with you because she is in a relationship means she has some messed up character flaws. Don't even think about this chick. You should be worried about your other girls. Just delete her number and charge it to the game.
 
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