"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bring on the cardio!

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I got my bodyfat tested today...it's 7.25%-8%,tested by calipers. My goal is 6-6.5%. I would stick to losing weight by busting my ass in the gym and eating healthy but it's summer time and I want to get down to 6%ish as quick as possible.

I'm gonna make this thread a break down of what and what hasn't worked for me to trim that final amount of bodyfat. I will keep my eating habits the same and lifting the same except once or twice a week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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danno1 said:
wasn't 8% your old goal?
To be honest,it probably was. I've seen my friends at 6-6.5% w/o any issues and I'm stopping until I get there. I've seen noticeable differences between 8% and 6% when my buddy did it,the veins come out even more & it really makes the abs more defined(nothing else really stood out).
 

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dude you need to step it up on the jump rope thats a really fast way you can get lean and also i suggest you go on the abs diet asap
 

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I've gone real easy on the cardio(got a new job and it's keeping me busy).

I've gone to do cardio twice in the past week. Each time it was 20 minutes on the bike on level 4 at 85+RPMs near midnight,separate from my workouts. This is just to break me in,in a week or two I will start doing it hard and start running on an inclined treadmill.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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