"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bring on the cardio!

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I got my bodyfat tested today...it's 7.25%-8%,tested by calipers. My goal is 6-6.5%. I would stick to losing weight by busting my ass in the gym and eating healthy but it's summer time and I want to get down to 6%ish as quick as possible.

I'm gonna make this thread a break down of what and what hasn't worked for me to trim that final amount of bodyfat. I will keep my eating habits the same and lifting the same except once or twice a week.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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danno1 said:
wasn't 8% your old goal?
To be honest,it probably was. I've seen my friends at 6-6.5% w/o any issues and I'm stopping until I get there. I've seen noticeable differences between 8% and 6% when my buddy did it,the veins come out even more & it really makes the abs more defined(nothing else really stood out).
 

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dude you need to step it up on the jump rope thats a really fast way you can get lean and also i suggest you go on the abs diet asap
 

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I've gone real easy on the cardio(got a new job and it's keeping me busy).

I've gone to do cardio twice in the past week. Each time it was 20 minutes on the bike on level 4 at 85+RPMs near midnight,separate from my workouts. This is just to break me in,in a week or two I will start doing it hard and start running on an inclined treadmill.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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