"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Briffault's Law

glass half full

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I'm planning a major move in the next year or so.
Any ideas on how to use Briffault's Law to my advantage in a new town?
I'm looking to go for much younger poon. like late 20s/early 30s. (I'm 53).
Going to be playing in a rock band.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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I dont see how it is any more or less applicable to where you are currently.
 

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I once moved to a new town and told people I had a girl in my old town. Which I did, a plate, but I implied that she was a GF. Then I eventually capitalized on the old faithful fact that women love to want what they don't think they can have. I was not in a band but being in a band will only help you even more.
 
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