"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Briffault's Law

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I'm planning a major move in the next year or so.
Any ideas on how to use Briffault's Law to my advantage in a new town?
I'm looking to go for much younger poon. like late 20s/early 30s. (I'm 53).
Going to be playing in a rock band.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I dont see how it is any more or less applicable to where you are currently.
 

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I once moved to a new town and told people I had a girl in my old town. Which I did, a plate, but I implied that she was a GF. Then I eventually capitalized on the old faithful fact that women love to want what they don't think they can have. I was not in a band but being in a band will only help you even more.
 
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